I was wondering. Do Love langauges correspond to Hate languages?
Like, if I love someone they can touch me, but if I hate them -- well, even if I don’t like them -- it makes my skin crawl.
I suppose I can picture the inverse of Quality Time. Talk about crawling, the minutes crawl by if you’re around someone you dislike.
But is there an opposite of Giving Gifts? Where someone you love gives you, say, a pair of earrings, and you like them, but those same earrings -- from someone you don’t love -- make you recoil? I don't mean you leave them in a box, but they make you shudder. I have to say I’ve never felt that, but Gifts are my least favorite love language.
What about talking? That makes sense, two people who don’t like each other just won’t talk at all, and if someone I dislike is talking to me, that is extremely tiresome.
The final puzzle is Acts of Service. Then again, I do remember workmates who would pre-emptively do my job for me. That was galling.
This all came about because I remembered how I deeply despise it when someone I dislike sits on my bed. Bed sitting should be a love language because it provokes such strong feelings.
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